oN mY oWn

Bakit kaya minsan ang sarap magmahal kahit
walang kapalit??? naisip mo na ba iyon? kala mo
okey lang… pero sobrang hirap pala. . .

Masarap magmahal hindi ba? Kahit ikaw, hindi ka
sigurado sa pag-ibig

ng taong mahal na mahal
mo… Minsan iniisip mo nalang na pagdating ng
tamang panahon magiging maayos din ang lahat…
Sana nga!!! Nang hindi ka naman mukhang tanga
na umaasa sa wala…

Minsan din ang sarap sarap isipin na minamahal
ka ng taong mahal mo!!! yung tipong kayo na lang
sana at hindi ang babaeng nakikita mong kasama
nya  ngaun na masaya at akala ang buong mundo ay
kanilang kanila…

Minsan din ang sarap bumalik sa nakaraan… yung
tipong masaya pa kayo, parang mga batang
walang problema… kung meron man parang,
against all odds ang settings… pero may nakabitin
pa ring tanong… ano kayang nangyari??? pero ang
kadalasang kasagutan e:

1. kasi di pala kami para sa isat-isa;
2. Nagkamali ako sa kanya;
3. iniwan lang nya ko ;
4. may iba na syang mahal;
5. niloko lang nya ko;
6. Di ako gusto ng parents nya;
7. ayoko na puro nalang kami away;
8. masyado nya kong sinasaktan;
9. nagsawa na sya sakin;

pero ito pinaka masakit;.

10.hindi pala nya talaga ako mahal (parang
panakip butas)

Grabe hindi ba??? Pero kailan kaya natin maririnig
na nagpapasalamat ang isang umiibig sa taong
nakasakit at sinaktan sya??? minsan naisip din
kaya natin na kung ano ang kahalagahan ng isang
bagay??? Yung kailangang bigyan ng halaga
habang nandyan pa! Minsan kasi, saka lang natin
nalalaman ang isang kahalagahan ng isang bagay
pag wala na ito sa atin!!!

kaya minsan din isipin natin yung mga sinasabi,
kinikilos, ginagawa natin kasi hindi lahat ng tao
kayang tanggapin kung ano at paano natin
ginagawa ang isang bagay!!! subukan nating
magpasalamat sa kabila ng lahat…

A. kung sinaktan ka nya… magpasalamat ka dahil
sya ang

dahilan para tumibay ka;

B. kung niloko ka nya… patawarin mo at
pasalamatan mo… dahil kung hindi sa kanya hindi
mo mararamdam ang sakit na pwede ding
maramdaman ng iba… at least hindi mo gagawain
sa iba;

C. kung hindi ka nya minahal… pasalamatan mo!!!
dahil at least kahit papano na-feel mo na minahal
ka nya kahit hindi, pasalamat sya dahil ikaw
minahal mo sya ng buong buo;

minsan kailangan lang natin harapin kung ano man
ang nakasakit sa atin… piliting kalimutan… piliting
harapin kung ano ang noon… noon lang yun… iba
ang ngayon!!! dahil kung nasaktan ka man noon,
ngayon mag-iingat ka na at alam mo na kung ano
dapat at hindi para hindi masaktan.

mahalin mo ang mga taong nakasakit sayo dahil
sila ang dahilan para maging matibay ka!!!! para sa
susunod di kana basta-basta padalos-dalos.
pasalamatan mo ang taong nakasakit sayo…

sino ba ang mas mahalaga, ang taong

mahal mo o
ang taong gusto mong mahalin???

ang taong kasama mo buong araw o ang taong
iniicip mo bago matapos ang araw???

siya bang kasa-kasama mo sa lahat ng ginagawa
mo o siyang dahilan ng lahat ng galaw at ginagawa
mo???

sino ba ang mas mahalaga… yung taong nais
mong makasama habang buhay o yung taong
hindi mo makita ang habang buhay kapag wala
siya?

Sino ang mas matimbang… yung taong pag
kasama mo’y parang kay bilis ng oras o yung
taong tuwing iniicp mo’y parang kay bagal ng
oras?

ano ang susundin mo… ang dinidikta mo sa puso
mo o ang dinidikta ng puso mo syo?

sya ba un laging pumapasok sa isip mo o siya
yung laging laman ng panaginip mo?

Sino nga ba… ang taong nagpaluha syo, o ang
taong nagpunas sa minsang pagluha mo?

Sino sa kanila… ang taong nagpapatawa syo o
ang taong dahilan ng lahat ng iyong emosyon?

SIno nga bang pipiliin mo???

ANG TAONG MULING NAGBUKAS NG PUSO
MO. ..

O ANG TAONG MATAGAL NG NANDOON???

One day, I woke up early in the morning to watch the sunrise….Ahhh - the beauty of God’s creation is beyond description. As I watched, I praised God for His beautiful work. As I sat there, I felt God’s presence with me. He asked me, “Do you love me?” I answered, “Of course, God! You are my Lord and Savior.” Then He asked me, “If you were physically handicapped, would you still love me?” I was perplexed, I looked down upon my arms, legs, and the rest of my body and wondered how many things I wouldn’t be able to do, the things I have taken for granted. And I answered. “It would be tough Lord, but I would still love You.” Then the Lord said, “If you were blind, would you still love My creation?” How could I love something without being able to see it? Then I thought of all the blind people in the world and how many of them still loved God and His creation. So I answered, “It’s hard to think of it, but I would still love You.” God then asked me, “If you were deaf, would you still listen to My words?” How could I listen to anything being deaf? Then I understood. Listening to God’s words is not merely using our ears, but our hearts. I answered, “It would be tough, but I would still listen to Your words.” The Lord then asked, “If you were mute, would you still praise My name?” How could I praise without a voice? Then it occurred to me: God wants us to sing from our hearts and soul. And praising God is not always with a song, but when we are persecuted, we give God praise with our words of thanks. So I answered, “Though I could not physically sing, I would still praise Your name.” And the Lord asked, “Do you really Love Me?” With courage and strong conviction I answered boldly, “Yes Lord! I Love You because You are the one and true God!” I thought I answered well, but God asked, “THEN WHY DO YOU SIN?” I answered. “Because I am only human, I am not perfect.” “THEN WHY IN TIMES OF PEACE DO YOU STAY THE FARTHEST? WHY ONLY IN TIMES OF TROUBLE DO YOU PRAY THE EARNEST?” No answers. Only tears. The Lord continued: “WHY ONLY SING AT THE WORSHIP SERVICES? WHY SEEK ME ONLY IN TIMES OF WORSHIP? WHY ASK THINGS SO SELFISHLY? WHY ASK THINGS SO UNFAITHFUL?” The tears continued to roll down my cheeks. “WHY ARE YOU ASHAMED OF ME? WHY ARE YOU NOT SPREADING THE GOOD NEWS? WHY IN TIMES OF PERSECUTION, YOU CRY TO OTHERS WHEN I OFFER MY SHOULDER TO CRY ON? WHY MAKE EXCUSES WHEN I GIVE YOU OPPORTUNITY TO SERVE IN MY NAME?” I tried to answer, but there was no answer to give. “YOU ARE BLESSED WITH LIFE. I MADE YOU NOT THROW THIS GIFT AWAY. I BLESSED YOU WITH TALENTS TO SERVE ME, BUT YOU CONTINUE TO TURN AWAY. I HAVE REVELAED MY WORDS TO YOU, BUT YOU DO NOT GAIN IN KNOWLEDGE. I HAVE SPOKEN TO YOU, BUT YOUR EARS WERE CLOSED. I HAVE SHOWN MY BLESSINGS TO YOU, BUT YOUR EYES WERE TURNED AWAY. I HAVE SENT YOU SERVANTS, BUT YOU SAT BY AS THEY WERE PUSHED AWAY. I HAVE HEARD YOUR PRAYERS AND I HAVE ANSWERED THEM ALL.” “DO YOU TRULY LOVE ME?” I could not answer, how could I? I was embarrassed beyond belief. I had no excuse. What could I say to this? When I had cried my heart out and tears had flowed, I said, “Please forgive me Lord, I am unworthy to be Your child.” The Lord answered, “That is My Grace, My child” I asked, “Then why do You continue to forgive me? Why do You love me so?” The Lord answered, “Because You are My creation. You are My child. I will never abandon you. When you cry, I will have compassion and cry with you. When you shout with joy, I will laugh with you. When you are down, I will encourage you. When you fall, I will raise you up. When you are tired, I will carry you. I will be with you till the end of days, and I will love you forever.” Never had I cried so hard before. How could I have been so cold? How could I have hurt God as I had done? I bowed my head down as tears continued to roll down my cheeks. And for the first time, I truly prayed.

sHokrAn

Thank you for everything…
for taking away my insecurities; for showing me that people
do love me for who I am;
for making me understand that people I love will hurt me but
it doesn’t necessarily
mean they love me any less, and that when they do hurt me,
it is possible to forgive,
forget and move on with life;
Thank you…
for making me realize it is possible to trust again after
getting hurt.
Thank you too…
for giving me the most painful lesson in my life thus far…
that the moment you love someone you have given him the
capacity to hurt you,
that how much you’ve been hurt is equal to how much you have
loved,
that getting hurt is proportionate to having too many
expectations.

Thank you for accepting me and allowing me enough room to grow at the
same time…
for inspiring me and making me want to become a better person.

Thank you for being there when I needed you - for the silly and the
serious moments;
for making me laugh, smile and cry all at the same time;
for holding my hand when I’m nervous or scared; for giving me
a hug and wiping
away my tears when I’m sad or confused;
for never failing to make me feel better no matter how down
or how depressed I’ve become;
for unselfishly sharing my joys and my happiness. Most of
all, thank you for making me feel special,
for making me feel loved, even if it was so confusing and so
fleeting I was hardly conscious about it…

I know I wasn’t supposed to expect anything to come out of our
playing pretend either.
But even if everything got so painful, I’m still glad to have known
you, to have had you
in my life even for just a short while. I’ve heard people say that
while some good things
never last others don’t even start - I guess that fits us
exactly…we could have been good
together…good for each other, but then since we never really gave
ourselves a chance,
things had ended before they even began…

I’m letting you go, I’m letting us go. I’ve finally accepted
that this is the way things
would have to be, that i should allow us both to be free enough to
seek whatever it is that
will truly make us happy. Even if it isn’t with each other…

=)ghie

dream of me
kirsten dunst

Let me sleep
For when I sleep
I dream that you are here
You’re mine
And all my fears are left behind
I float on air
The nightingale sings gentle lullabys
So let me close my eyes

And sleep
Per chance to dream
So I can see the face I long to touch
To kiss
But only dreams can bring me this
So let the moon
Shine softly on the boy I long to see
And maybe when he dreams
He’ll dream of me

I’ll hide beneath the clouds
And whisper to the evening stars
They tell me love is just a dream away
Dream away (echo 3x)
I’ll dream away

So let the moon
Shine softly on the boy I long to see
And maybe when he dreams
He’ll dream of me

Oooohhh
Dream of me

We had the right love

At the wrong time

Guess I always knew inside

I wouldnt have you for a long time

Those dreams of yours

Are shining on distant shores

And if theyre calling you away

I have no right to make you stay

But somewhere down the road

Our roads are gonna cross again

It doesnt really matter when

But somewhere down the road

I know that heart of yours will come to see

That you belong with me

Sometimes goodbyes are not forever

It doesnt matter if youre gone

I still believe in us together

I understand more than you think I can

You have to go out on your own

So you can find your way back home

But somewhere down the road

Our roads are gonna cross again

It doesnt really matter when

But somewhere down the road

I know that heart of yours will come to see

That you belong with me

Letting go is just another way to say

Ill

always love you so

We had the right love

At the wrong time

Maybe weve only just begun

Maybe the best is yet to come

Cause somewhere down the road

Our roads are gonna cross again

It doesnt really matter when

But somewhere down the road

I know that heart of yours will come to see

That you belong with me

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there…to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but, when you lock eyes with them, you know that every moment they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair but, upon reflection, you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.  Safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to. If someone loves you, love them back, unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.

Create your own life and then go out and live it.

"Someone i cared about said to me that love is not a mere feeling

but a descision…..its something we choose for ourselves…..

its something we fight for…I know i am not an expert on this I

even consider myself a looser in this field…. but i have seen many sad

stories

of broken relationship from other people…my question is.. what can we do

to sustain any kind of relationships be it as a friend or a lover, you

know that

these things are what makes us human.(maybe im not human) i don’t believe

there’s "handling" a relationship as much as "building" one, do you? and

then i came

across these… really good

reminders if we want our relationships to stay

and for keeps.i hope it will help yours….

1. Don’t think in terms of forever. Think of

now, and forever will take

care of itself. Recognize that all relationships

cannot be forever..

Recognize their temporary quality, but continue

to act as if they are

permanent.

2. Expect to invest a great deal of time and

energy in your relationships.

Lasting relationships don’t just happen, they

are created.

3. Respect the other person’s relationships

apart from you. If they are important to the one you

care about, they should be important to you.

4. Never idealize others. They will never live

up to your expectations.

5. Don’t be afraid of giving. You can never give

too much, if you’re giving

willingly.

6. Never force anyone to do anything for you "in

the name of love." Love is

not to be bargained for.

7. Don’t allow experience to harden your heart;

rather use it to become

more aware and sensitive.

8. Don’t lose touch with the craziness in you.

This, with a large dose of

caring, will assure that your relationship will

never be boring.

9. Don’t brood. Get on with living and loving.

You don’t have forever.

10. Always start a relationship by asking: Do I

have ulterior motives for

wanting to relate to this person? Is my caring

conditional? Am I trying to

escape something? Am I planning to change the

person? Do I need this person

to help me make up for a deficiency in myself?

If your answer to any of

these questions is "Yes", leave the person

alone. He or she is better off without you.

11. Keep the child in you alive and playing.

12. Divorce, fighting, arguing will never solve

your problems; better to

try understanding, warmth and flexibility.

13. Stop going through life in self-pity, self-

blame and "mea culpa"

syndrome. We are not as bad as we think.

14. Write down all the reasons why you love each

person you relate with.

Then, when the going gets tough, take the list

out and reread it. It

resolves problems quickly.

15. Don’t be afraid of disagreements and

arguments, the only people who

don’t argue are people who don’t care or are

dead. In fact, don’t have

short arguments. Make certain they are

thoroughly

over and done with. After

an argument is over, forget it.

16. Watch out for little irritations, they grow

into destructive monsters.

Verbalize them at once.

17. Let go of pride. It is usually false,

creates

barriers and prevents

closeness.

18. Acknowledge the humanness of the other.

19. Exercise feelings. Feelings have meaning

only as they are expressed in action.

20. Be compassionate. It is the sure way to

understanding and acceptance.

21. See all criticism as positive for it leads

to self-evaluation. You are always free to reject it

if it is unfair or does not apply.

22. Expect what is reasonable, NOT what is

perfect.

23. Stop playing games. A growing relationship

can only be nurtured by

GENUINENESS.

24. Even though you are only half of a

relationship, you must remain a

whole person, apart from the relationship.

25. Remember that moral and spiritual values

don’t restrict, they PROTECT.

26. What you learn about yourself will

infinitely help in trying to understand others.

27. See problems as small MIRACLES which can

bring about KNOWLEDGE AND CHANGE.

28. Don’t allow your relationships to die of

NEGLECT

‘Someone felt that way about me once. Then he

stopped.’

when a girl cries it doesn’t
mean she’s weak.
If a girl cries in front of u.
it means that she couldn’t take it anymore.

If u takes her hand, she would stay with u
for the
rest of your life; If u let her go, she couldn’t
go
back to being
herself anymore.

A girl wont cry easily,
except in front of the person whom she
loves the most,
she becomes weak.

A girl wont cry easily, only when she love
u the most,
she put down her ego.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of u, please hold
her hands firmly, coz she’s the one who is
willing to stay
with u 4 for the rest of

ur

life.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of u,
please don’t give her up,
maybe bcoz of

ur

decision,
u ruin her life.

When she cries rite in front of u,
When she cries bcoz of u,
Look into her eyes,
Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she’s
feeling?

Think.
Which other girl have cried with pure
sincerity,
In front of u,
And bcoz of u?

She cries not because she is weak,
She cries not bcoz she wants sympathy or
pity,
She cries,
Because crying silently is no longer
possible, the pain, hurt n agony have
become too
big a burden to be kept inside.

Guys,
Think about it,
If a girl cries her heart out to u,
And all because of u,
Its time to look back on what u have done,
Only u will know the answer to it.

Do consider it,
Coz one day,
It may b too late for regrets,
It may b too late to say "im sorry"…

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love
him for his steady nature, and I love the warm
feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Three years of courtship and now, two years into
marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting
tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has
now transformed into the cause of all my
restlessness. I am a sentimental woman and
extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the
romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for
candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his
lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing
romantic moments into our marriage has
disheartened me about love. One day, I finally
decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a
divorce.

"Why?" he asked, shocked. "I am tired, there are
no reasons for everything in the world!" I answered.
He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in
deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.
My feeling of disappointment only increased, here
was a man who can’t even express his
predicament, what else can I hope from him? And
finally he
asked me:" What can I do to change your mind?"
Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a
person’s personality, and I guess, I have started
losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly
answered : "Here is the question, if you can
answer and convince my heart, I will change my
mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face
of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that
picking the flower will cause your death, will you
do it for me?" He said :" I will give you your answer
tomorrow…." My hopes just sank by listening to
his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and
saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting,
underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near
the front door, that goes….

"My dear, I would not pick that flower for you, but
please allow me to explain the reasons further…"
This first line was already breaking my heart. I
continued reading.

"When you use the computer you always mess up
the Software programs, and you cry in front of the
screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help
to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I
have to save my legs to rush home to open the
door for you. You love traveling but always lose
your way in a

new city

, I have to save my eyes to
show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good
friend" approaches every month, I have to save my
palms so that I can calm the cramps in your
tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will
be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my
mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your
boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do
nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes
so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your
nails,and help to remove those annoying white
hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling
down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and
the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of
flowers, just like the color of the glow on your
young face…
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is
someone who loves you more than I do… I could
not pick that flower yet, and die.. "

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his
handwriting… and as I continue on
reading…

"Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if
you are satisfied, please open the front door for I
am standing outside bringing your favorite bread
and fresh milk… "

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious
face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk
bottle and loaf of bread…. Now I am very sure that
no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I
have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by
love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one
tends to ignore the true love that lies in between
the peace and dullness. Love shows up in all
forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has
never been a model, it could be the most dull and
boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are
only used and appear on the surface of the
relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love
stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win
arguments…

how do you tell your friends kapag ‘ wala na kayo’ ?